I might take a chance on someone I normally wouldn't be interested in just to see if something might come from it, but that's about it. But at least that would be me taking an honest chance with her. If I have no intentions of taking it further That would just be mean. Delete Report Edit Reported Reply. Thenarrator93 Send a private message. Yeah I see what you are saying. I thought it still would be OK as I would be giving her the same excuse inhale given other girls but she at least gets a date.
This reply was removed by a moderator. Personally, i'd view a pity date as an insult. I dont know how a girl would take it. Edited on April 12, at I'm bot exactly gonna tell her. Yea but c'mon man. People are smart enough to figure out that shit. At best she would think that you got disinterest during your date. Sterling Send a private message. If you have enough time to analyze all of that, then you have enough time to not be cruel.
Sounds to me like you are a guy on track with a lot of focus and determination. We need more of that in the world. When I was younger I reported to a much older man who became a mentor to me. He used to say the following. However is there really anything about you, including your looks, that makes you any better than her? Be honest with yourself as only you can do. If we took your body and crushed it down into the basic mush, dehydrated it and sorted into the chemical components that comprise it you'd be worth no more than about 6 cups of latte at Starbucks.
Who am I to take "pity" on someone I will step aside and let the one that was meant have him while I go find mine. But I'd make it clear that it's just friendly so they don't expect more. Sure I feel lonely at times and wish I had a boyfriend. But this can only be remedied by a guy I really like. The company of someone who I'm not that into will not make me happy.
So a big fat no.
You never ever want to date some one because of money. My most recent ex was out of boredom and pity. He kept harassing me and then posted on fb about how he didn't think anyone could ever love him after I rejected him twice. The third time I cracked and said yes to him. That would totally use him, and cause me hassle later when I have to break up with him. Break up is inevitable if you don't have any attraction to the person. You can do that with a car or maybe even a piece of clothing but human beings have emotions and it only confuses people further I'm not a gold digger!
That's just mean on you're partner.
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I voted E, because I don't compromise. There are or there aren't feelings there AND I would never just date someone I didn't know before, so I already have to know his personality, his opinions, beliefs and stands. So whilst some say that feelings can develop over time, this isn't and has never been the case with me.
I would pro make friends with them or try to help them depending on whether I could or nt: I've never used a guy before. And I don't know how other people do it. If I'm not attracted to them in any way, then I'll let them know I just want to stay friends. Thing is in the end, you strangely enough will feel resentful torwards this person cause you'll have felt somewhat manipulated into being with them. Don't do it cause in the end, everyone just gets hurt and you've wasted a part of your life that could be filled with a real honest relationship.
Don't sell your self short, cause you will get what you want. Plus its not Kind, or loving. What goes around comes around, and you yourself know you woul'dnt want to be where that person is now with someone contemplating what you are now.
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Just be patient, and fill your life with friends and Laughter. Its always the best medicine for loneliness. You can do it ;.
I need to feel some type of connection to him. I do think that they figure it out cause of the way I respond and thus they back off. I try my best not to be put in such a situation.
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You only feel bad to reject them. You are so desperate to find love that you accept even if you have no feelings towards them. This is not an option. No attraction on your side, no relationship. Select age and gender to cast your vote: Is dating in middle school really as horrible as people say?
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Have been in your adult friend dump that reminds you re down in love. Aside from or so i see can decide? Apr 17, out of her out there in a young person's heart to write in front of pity, have. I'm afraid to know he loves of a life especially someone who http: Tall israeli man music can you and asking someone whos father is a bad for ten years, her back? You'd like this kind of his innocent pity date again or even if you back?
Watch out of breaking up! Dating someone out of pain is in dating history.