She might want you to meet her family early on to see if they like you, mainly because you're a foreigner.
Even if Romanians like and accept very well foreigners in general, some families have a hard time accepting a foreigner in, so Romanian women try to make sure you could fit it, even before things get serious. Even if she will not take you to meet the parents, she will make sure you meet a sibling or a very good friend, quite early on, but probably after the two of you have been dating a bit.
When you go to visit her family for the first time, bring flowers for all the women in the family learn before hand how many they are and what are their ages, so you can buy appropriate flowers. Don't be shy in asking her what are their favorite flowers, she will like this little 'cheating' and you will impress the women in her family. For men her father, brother , usually a nice bottle of wine will do. In many cases the parents might not speak English, so your Romanian language lessons could come in handy.
Show the family you respect their daughter and try to speak about small plans you have together - trips, etc. Speak about your family too, and about your country - her family will want to know what are your roots, what your parents do for a living. Speak about yourself and what you've done in life, but avoid bragging too much, especially if her family is on a modest income.
There is of course also the case where she has you meeting the family late, or very late into your relationship, and in this case you should try to find out — subtly! She could have a tough relationship with her parents, or simply believe she should introduce you when things are serious enough, like she'd do with a boyfriend of Romanian nationality.
Romanians like to travel and discover new countries, new people. Your home country might not seem much to you now that you've traveled the world, and taking her home to see your family, and the places where you grew up might not be such a big thing for you, but these will definitely be important for her. If you're serious about her, organize a holiday to your home country. This could include meeting your parents or not, it will be up to you, depending on how young your relationship is, and how she feels about meeting your folks. But if you've already met her parents and you organize a trip to your home country, you should take her home too to meet mum and dad, or else she will think you're trying to hide her, or are ashamed of her being Romanian Romanians do not have a great image abroad in some countries, you've all read the news.
Romanians are in general very sociable and like to do things; apply that to a woman, and you can figure out the result. In general, Romanian woman would like their partners to organize various activities for the couple. Make sure you involve your Romanian girlfriend into the decision process you don't want her to feel like eye candy trapped to your arm at events she will hate, no? Propose activities, either for the two of you, or involving your and her friends.
Try to take her to the restaurant now and then perhaps avoid fast foods if you really want to impress. Traditionally Romanians cook at home and stay at home, so she most likely saw that in her family, and would like to experience something different too, like eating out from time to time.
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This activity is anyway increasingly popular among the younger generation in Romania, so she will have friends who do it, and will want to do it too. When you start dating, make sure you foot the bill, even if it's in your culture to split the bill. A Romanian woman will be negatively impressed if her date asked her to cover half of the bill.
She will expect you to cover the wining and dining budget. If you have money issues and still want to take her out, it is better to be honest about it before going out. Don't make a big deal out of it, just tell her you'd like to see her but that you'd prefer to go to the park, or do something indoors, as you're on a low budget these days. She will understand and possibly suggest she'd pay the bill this time, or suggest you cook dinner at home together.
Don't make it a habit though. A group meeting involving your friends — possibly of the same nationality as you — and her friends most likely Romanian will be like an enforcement of your relationship on a bigger level, by emphasizing the mix between the two cultures.
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Plus, she will feel the center of it all, as she will be proud to have put her Romanian friends in contact with your group of foreign friends. It may sound shallow, and of course may not be applicable to all Romanians, but they love to brag about foreign friends, or friends and family who live abroad - anything related to 'foreign'. Something to do with the many years they were under Communism, where anything foreign was rare and valuable. So secretly she will always love it that others envy her for being in a relationship with you. Don't take that for granted, though, or believe it plays a bigger role than it does.
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You still have to put time and effort into the relationship, if you really care about her. Have you learned the hard way the do's and don't when it comes to being in a relationship with a Romanian woman? Share your ideas in the comment box below! Want to be up to speed with what's happening in Romania? Sign up for the free newsletters of your choice. Daily News. How to win over, date and keep a Romanian woman.
Romania Insider. Here's a short collection of things to keep in mind when trying to win over, date and then build a relationship with a Romanian woman. Remember these are generalities and may not be applicable to the woman you like, but you should be aware of them and find out what's her stand on these. Exchange cultural identity stories. Get some Romanian language classes. Watch out for what you wear. Want to impress and understand a Romanian? Compliment, compliment, compliment! Be generous and thoughtful when making gifts, but don't turn the gift shower tap to the max.
Learn name days and other holidays when small gifts are expected. Cook together, learn to enjoy Romanian food and dinner parties. Impress her family and friends. Take her to your home country. Take her out, go on holidays, organize activities. Have your friends meet her friends.
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Latest Press Releases. Press Releases. Press Release: Hundreds of students attended One-to-One meetings and special presentations of top Universities from around the world at the Bucharest International Schools University Conference. Some nuances should be known in advance. First of all, visiting Romania and getting involved with a local girl, you should always show your respect towards older people. It can be her father, grandfather, or just an elderly man on a bus stop, but you should always greet them in a special way: a light bow, a light smile, a respectful expression of the face, and readiness to listen to their advice.
This is a must.